ATTENTION: Three Lessons on CHITTA NIRODH


Chitta Nirodh.
« -Teach me how to avoid things that tempt me, take away my attention.
-Take away my thoughts, give me a witness state by which I see the whole drama.
-Let me never spite others and criticize others.
Let me see my mistakes, not others.
Let me see why people are not happy with me.
Give me strength to have a very sweet tongue and a very sweet nature, so that others like my company, they enjoy my company.
Let me be like a flower and not like a thorn.

You have to pray. All these prayers are going to help you. Then ask for the greatest prayer, which you must ask…
Please keep me away from EGO that gives me ideas that I am superior to others, or in any way that takes away my meekness and my humility.
Give me the natural humility, by which I can penetrate into the hearts of people.

Just you have to bend your head and you go up to your heart…Where resides the SPIRIT, be with it. If you are anyway hurt in your ego, or you are hurting somebody’s ego, it is just the same. You’ll behave in the same manner, the same egoistical manner.
So try to understand that these things have to go away. Its best is to pray and ask for help. Prayer is a very big thing, but with your heart, pray that:

God, give me strength and that growth, that we can please our Mother sometimes.
We want to please our Mother…We want to see her happy.
The only thing that will really gives Me happiness is…: that the way I love you, you love each other.»
From: Advice at Chelsham Road, 1980
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«You must know that you represent Me…Try to imbibe some of My qualities…Some of My qualities. You must show patience.
Now the best way would be to pray. Prayer is a very great thing for Sahaja Yogis.
Pray with your heart.
First of all you must ask for strength from Mother,
Give me strength so that I be genuine, I wouldn’t deceive Myself…
You are deceiving yourself morning till evening!
Give me strength that I face myself, and say it with my heart that I try to improve myself.
Because these are defects which are not your own. They are outside, if they fall off you’ll feel all right. You‘ll be perfect.
Now, then you should ask for forgiveness, pray for forgiveness, there should be prayer…Say that
You, forgive me. Because I have been ignorant. I did not know what to do. I have done mistakes, So You, please forgive me.
That is the first thing one has to ask…is the forgiveness.
Then second thing…You ask for… is
Give me a sweet tongue, a method by which I become communicative with others. Others respect me, they like me, they like my presence.
Give me strength, give me love, give me the beauty of culture, beauty of understanding that everyone loves me, wants me.
Ask for prayer. In the prayer you ask that …
 O Lord give me the sense of security…Of my SPIRIT… So that I don’t feel insecure by which I trouble others, or get angry.
Give me the sense of my own dignity, so that I do not feel that I’m belittled, or someone has littled me.
If you are at a higher position no one can belittle you. It’s can only be belittled by your foolishness and tomfoolery. Ask for strength that
give me my witness state.
Give me satisfaction,
ask for satisfaction,
let me feel my satisfaction for what I have.
Whatever I have. Whatever I eat. Everything.
Take out my attention from all these things.
You know that your attention is in the stomach. And those who are very much interested in food will get liver in any case whatever you may try.
In anything like this wherever my attention is going, please give me strength to pull it back

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On witness state and Eyes that See the Reality:  
here, a LINK  to more information.
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From Shiva 1984:
That's why it is said that after Realization one must try to practice the Shiva Tattwa by practicing detachment. Now how do you practice this detachment?
Because we get attached to something, of course through our brain, but through our attention. So we try to do what we call chitta nirodh, is to control your attention. Where is it going?
In the practice of Sahaja Yoga, if you have to rise higher you have to improve your own instrument and not the instrument of others. This is one thing one should know, for definite.
Now, you just watch your attention. Where is it going? Watch yourself.
As soon as you’ll start watching yourself, your attention, you’ll become more identified with your Spirit. Because if you have to watch your attention, you will have to be your Spirit, otherwise how will you watch it?
So now see where is your attention going.
First, the attachment is, in all gross ways, to your body. So we see Shiva – there’s no attachment to His body. He sleeps anywhere. He goes to the cemeteries and sleeps there, because He's not attached. He can never be caught up by any bhoots or anything, nothing of the kind. He is detached.
The detachment is to be watched and seen through your own attachments. Now, because you are realized souls, not yet the Spirit, has not come into your brain of course, but still you are realized souls.
So what you can do is at least to watch your attention, you can do that. You can watch your attention very clearly by seeing where your attention is going. And then, controlling your attention, also, you can do. Very simple!
To control your attention you have to just remove your attention from this to that. Try to change your priorities, all this has to be done now, after Realization - a complete detachment.
For Shiva, it doesn't matter whether He is in a cemetery or in his own Kailasha or anywhere. Where your attention is? You see that your human attention is hopelessly bad. Very entangled nonsense it is..../...
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India tour 1987/
I hope My words act as mantras on you and that all of you try to follow a path of ascent and not of descent.
Don’t talk too much about things especially before meditation and after meditation. Try to keep quiet for a while.
To be quiet itself is very great, and also if there are thoughts then you have to say,
“Not this, not this, not this.”
Disturbances should not upset you, any disturbance whatsoever.
I hope this time you are going to achieve a lot because I have a feeling at this time, in all the pujas I am really working very very hard, very hard, and if you people little bit, little bit decide that we are not here for enjoyment, for buying clothes or saris or anything, but we are here for our ascent. If that is decided in your heart, I am sure it will work out.
Please try to control your attention. Control, chitta nirodh, control it! Where is it going? Where is my attention going? Where is the attention going? Ask yourself: "Am I there or am I outside?"
Otherwise you’ll have very funny awareness, very funny awareness. Not that you are not intelligent. Not that you are incapable of understanding what I say. Only thing is whatever I say it’s not recorded, and even if it is recorded it is used for others,
‘Mother said so so you are bad, not me’.
If you see this point, all right. Everybody has improved a lot coming to Sahaja Yoga; everybody has got a lot of peace within themselves and joy within themselves.
Now what we have to do is to get to the climax where nobody can touch you, where you will be touching others, not others touching you. They’ll just come up to your feet and then you have to pull them up. I hope this time you are going to build up all that.